Approaches from last week
Approach 16 – less than 5 min, GWU, elevator, indian girl waiting by elevator, asked about class and did some small talk
Approach 17 – less than 5 min, GWU, near gym, asian girl, asked where to find sushi, Jdub says I need to banter
Approach 18 – less than 5 min, GWU, near lisner, white lady on street, sushi, bantered and crossed street with her
I saw a lady walk past me, she wasn't cute...but I thought to my self what DJ Fuji had said.
"Are you here to get the girl, or the skill?" - DJ Fuji
I was there to get the skill, so I approached anyway. I called her from behind and asked her where I could find some sushi. I then bantered off of that and told her she would be my tour guide. She was speaking with an accent so I asked her where she was from and she said Texas. I told her it sounded French and she tells me she studied in France for her masters (haha I keep getting these French girls). So I speak the little French that I know and we cross the street. I go into my Pearl of Africa guessing game and end up telling some story about me traveling. We arrive close to the sushi place which was close to where she was going. I wasn't attracted to her so I didn't bother with the number close and just said bye...FAIL! I should number closed according to Jdub. I was there to get the skill not the girl. I should Always Be Closing. It's a skill I need to have on autopilot.
Approach 19 – less than 5 min, GWU, near Academic center, NY girl, sushi, need to work on my bantering
Approach 20 – less than 5 min, GWU, behind medical school, white girl, need to work on bantering and being more playful
Approach 21 – less than 5 min, GWU, white girl waiting to cross street, sushi, kept on talking about sushi, need to transition off that shit ASAP!
Approach 22 – less than 5 min, Georgetown, white girl, sushi...nothing special...it's all a blur :p
Approach 23 – less than 5 min, Dupont Circle, bus stop, white girl dressed up walking w/starbucks in her hand, Stacy?
Jdub vetoed me to approach a cute girl all dressed up like she was going somewhere important. She crossed the street past us and I didn't approach. Jdub says I can't go against a veto and that I'm gonna approach her regardless so I better start walking faster towards her. I run after her and tap her on the shoulder and say "Excuse me...".
She gets startled and almost spills her coffee...she actually spilled some on my hand haha. Obviously this was a horrible start and I ask if she's alright and say I didn't mean to startle her. I come up with some BS and ask if her name is Stacy cuz she looked like this girl I used to date. She says no and I eject....that's why they have the 3 second rule. I should have approached her earlier when she was close to me rather than stalling.
Approach 24 – less than 5 min, Dupont, Jdub vetoes me to approach a white girl w/glasses by crossway, horse girl, I didn't remember that shit and ejected super early...she said "Have a nice day" as I walked away??? The Fuck? I barely said anything special...was she attracted?? hmm....lol.
Approach 25 – less than 5 min, Dupont, Jdub vetoes yet again to approach a girl who walks past us. I tell her I like her style and try to have a conversation as she's walking but she doesn't stop since I was talking behind her. Should have walked in front of her and opened or stopped her instead.
I need to work on the following things:
- Bantering and being Playful. I take myself too seriously.
- No stalling when told to approach
- Practice number closing regardless of girl...Always Be Closing (ABC)